Life and Friends :-D

Soo, I want to post today. However, I am not sure what to talk about... I mean theres probably something interesting out there to talk about like how I have been talking to a different really cool guy from Camp Pendleton. Not sure whats there but definitely a friendship. :) it would be nice to have even just that out here in Cali. I don't know, sometimes I wish I could read minds, then I would know who to trust, but then no one ould trust me because even I do not trust my thoughts.

Anyway, why don't we make this blog a discussion. But for it to work YOU the reader has to respond and reply to comments and the blog. So let us decide on a topic. Why don't we talk about relationships. Here is a list of relationship styles and where I believe they belong in the relationship continum.

    1. Acquaintance- this is a person whom you have met and spent very little time with or have not yet made and emotional or spiritual connection with.
    2. Outer Circle of Friends - People you have made an emotional or spiritual connection with but who you either do not agree with on some level or who you cannot connect further with.
    3. Closer Circle - People you do have a closer bond with and you hang out with regularly.
    4. Inner Circle / Best Friends - These people are the people you have a covenental relationship with, they know all of your deep dark secrets and your weaknesses and still love you for it, this position could be held by a spouse or very very good friend. :)
Ok so thats them broken down into 4 groups, why don't we expand and elaborate and I will change accordingly to see what and where we are :)

I am looking forward to the replies!!! lets load em up in the truck and shoot to the moon! :P

Comments

Matty said…
Supporting Friend - People that have been through the same/similar trauma in their lives as you have. You can talk to them about things that most people cannot understand.
07 February, 2012 21:36
Marcusmaxmus said…
Well, let's see, that is a very good point. My thoughts are for that topic though are supposed to be covered by number 4, normally those would be the people you go to. However they could be covered by anyone from numbers 2-4 if its a spiritual connection. :)
08 February, 2012 08:41
Matty said…
Exactly, since it can't be put into any specific category is why I suggested it for its own. I think people that go through similar trauma automatically have a spiritual connection. Everyone searches for people that understand them.
08 February, 2012 19:18
Marcusmaxmus said…
yes that is true, however I still don't feel it needs it's own category as they will fit in one of the others..
08 February, 2012 19:21
Matty said…
Fair enough ;)
08 February, 2012 19:34
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